Every winter, Hebrew College does a week-long seminar on a topic where students and faculty come together to learn and challenge ourselves: are we living our values in our community? And how do we want to bring those values forward into the communities we will lead as clergy? As my classmate Abi Oshins put it, “Torah without action is just a fancy book club.” This year’s topic was racial justice, and I’m so proud to be part of an institution where not only do they have such a seminar, and not only is it brilliantly organized, but the president asks presenters what more the institution can be doing and TAKES NOTES as they say where our institution misses the mark.
A few things I took with me that I want to remember:
Be willing to be a royal jackass. Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good and prevent you from making an effort. Know that you will make mistakes, and be prepared to apologize, learn to do better, and keep going.
Looking at when my family hit certain benchmarks, my grandparents were deeply influenced by antisemitism/conditional whiteness. My parents’ coming of age coincided with a cultural transition into white privilege. Their stories shape me, but I can’t ignore how much I have benefitted from white privilege. And just as my grandparents and parents experienced profound shifts in their lifetimes and had to adapt, I have a responsibility to grow and adapt.
I need to stop saying “Jews” when I mean “white Jews.”
The ways white Jews welcome people into Jewish spaces often serve a gatekeeping function (such as asking newcomers to take an aliyah and asking for their Hebrew names, or asking them to explain their background/life story on the Kiddush buffet line). This is particularly off-putting to Jews of color, and we need to give our welcoming committees, gabbis, and greeters other ways to truly welcome people.
We need to avoid tokenism and bring the full richness of different Jewish traditions into our prayer services and our learning. Sometimes this means inviting people and compensating them for what they share. Other times it means uplifting the author or origins of a piece we’re sharing.
I need to educate myself on community safety resources as alternatives to having police or security at the door for High Holidays. We can’t protect our communities by putting some of our community members in danger.
There are all kinds of ways Jewish organizations can support POC organizations, from which vendors they use for events to who they invite to use their space during the week. The goal posts are going to keep moving, just as they have on most social justice issues throughout my entire life, which means at some point most of these things are going to be wildly insufficient or just plain wrong. Go back to a willingness to be a royal jackass. Rinse. Repeat.